Archive for January, 2009

Rip Van Winkle Caper

Thursday, January 29th, 2009

If you are a Twilight Zone enthusiast like I am (my wife and I watched the marathon on Christmas Eve and Christmas), you will remember the episode, Rip Van Winkle Caper. As the story goes, four thieves, led by scientist-mastermind, Farwell, stole $1 million worth of gold bricks. They hid in a secret cave, in the desert in suspended animation chambers, designed by Farwell. The chambers were set for 100 years, figuring by 2061, nobody would remember the robbery and the gang would be in the clear.  

When they woke up, that’s when things went wrong. One of the gang was already dead, a skeletal remain, because a large boulder shattered his chamber. Because of greed, the three remaining thieves turn on one another and two more thieves were killed. Farwell, the scientist-mastermind, was the last of the Rip Van Winkles. He walked through the hot desert and made his way to the highway, but collapsed before he got there. A futuristic car drove up and Farwell offered a gold brick to the couple inside in exchange for water and a ride to the nearest town, but Farwell died moments later. 
 
As the man got back in the car to report Farwell’s death, he curiously remarked to his wife, “Can you imagine that? He offered this (the gold brick) to me as if it was really worth something.” The wife vaguely recalled that it had indeed been valuable in the distant past. The husband replied, “Sure, about a hundred years or so ago, before they found a way to manufacture it,” and he tossed the gold bar away.
 
What a commentary on the church and us as Jesus followers! We have been asleep for too long in our suspended animated chambers of irrelevancy. While we slept, the world changed. Some of the things and programs that were once valuable, have become worthless. People are looking for real life, but we offer them the bitter waters of dead or dying programs. They say to one another,”Can you imagine that? They offered us this (lifeless programs, dead worship services, and inauthentic lives).
 
If the Church and Jesus followers are going to be relevant 100 years from now, we must be like the sons of Issachar (1 Chronicles 12:32): understand the temper of the times and know the best course for the Church to take (1 Chronicles 12:32). The best course for us to take is not to offer dead or dying programs, but to offer people Jesus, God’s unspeakable gift, whose value does not ever change or grow old; He is the same today, yesterday and forever.  
 
Our call is not to chase our own dreams, but to chase the Jesus dream of making life-giving disciples who will go out and make life-giving disciples.
 
Will what you are chasing still be valuable in the future? Under what circumstances might its value change? Might something you now consider worthless take on value in the future? 
 
Tell me what you think. 

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Success Can be Dangerous

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

Mostly everyone desires to be successful in their endeavors. However, too much success too soon can be dangerous. Success has a tendency to make us complacent and lazy. When everything is going fine, we say, "Why change what is working for us?" This kind of thinking stops us from thinking new thoughts and trying new approaches. It is only when our jobs, departments, or ministries are threatened with irrelevancy and/or elimination that we are motivated to change and make improvements. 

For example, in the mid-19th century, there was a burst of innovation in the sailing ship industry. This innovation happened when it became obvious that the steamship would dominate the commercial sailing ship. With this threat of elimination, the sailing ship reached its peak in efficiency. The challenge of steam forced the sailing ship to innovate and reduce the duration of the crossing of the Atlantic from five weeks in 1840 to three weeks in 1860. This speed innovation could have been made ten to twenty years earlier. It was only when it was threatened with elimination, did the sailing ship innovate, change and improve. 

To remain successful, sometimes we have to threaten, oppose, and destroy the very things that enabled us to be successful to begin with.  

Has success made you and your team complacent? How can you threaten, challenge, oppose or even destroy the very things that has made you successful in order to stay creative and relevant? 

What do you think?      

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The Gordian Knot

Monday, January 26th, 2009

According to ancient Greek legend, who ever could untie the Gordian Knot, an intricate knot of cornel bark tied by the god Midas, would become King of Asia. Many tried to untie the knot, and all failed to solve the complicated problem. As legend goes, Alexander the Great tried. After many attempts, he could not find the ends of the rope. All of his efforts were thwarted by the riddle of the knot. So, he made up his own knot untying rules. He drew his sword and cut the knot in half. The legend says that Asia was fated to him. Some may say he cheated, but I think he solved an “intractable problem by challenging the rules with a bold stroke.”

Most advances in technology, history, education, business, and ministry have occurred because someone challenged the rules and took a different approach. Albert Szent-Gyorgi, the Hungarian physiologist who won the Nobel Prize in Medicine 1937, for discovering vitamin C, said: “Discovery is seeing what everybody else has seen and thinking what nobody else has thought.”
 
Let’s take some time this week to identify our Gordian Knots – those intractable problems in your life, business, marriage, ministry, classroom, and department – that we have created for ourselves or someone else has created for us, and decide what rules you need to challenge to slice through them. What bold moves and tough calls do you need to make about one of your problems? 
 
This week, let’s see what everyone else has seen, but think what nobody else has thought, and discover healthy and successful solutions.   
 

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Handling Losses

Saturday, January 24th, 2009

On January 19th, 2009, at her home, Jane Brainard, the mother of my friend, brother, and co-laborer, David Brainard, unexpectedly slipped behind the curtain of eternity and into the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. My heart goes out to her husband, George, and the rest of the Brainard tribe. I know all who knew her will miss her dearly. 

Losing loved ones to illness and death, losing a job, losing a close friend, losing innocence, losing a dream, losing opportunities, losing possessions, or simply losing a handle on life, are all difficult losses to handle, no matter how strong of a person you are. We don't have to pretend to be unshaken, unmoved unflappable, and super spiritual. I give you permission to allow your heart to ache, throb, and spasm over the losses in your life. But, how do we manage our lives in the midst of the losses we face?  As I watched and listened to the example of Brainard family over the last week, and was a bystander at the home going celebration today, I was deeply moved by their faith. So, I made a few observations on how we can handle our losses in life. 

1. The family mourned because of their loss. In the Bible, the tearing of the clothes and shaving the head indicated intense grief and was often an immediate reaction to disaster. They broke the normal pattern of living for a time to acknowledge their loss. I did not see the tearing clothes and shaved heads (Well, I am not certain if the shaved heads was grief or just the aging process – lol!), but I saw a deep and healthy grief and sorrow. They mourned and sorrowed as people with hope. That hope rests in Jesus. Mourning and grieving is part of the human experience when we lose people that are dear to us, and we must take time to go through that process. We should grieve according to our own time schedule and in the way that is most comfortable for us. So, when you experience a loss, take ample time to grieve and mourn your losses. Remember, however, as believers in Jesus, we grieve and mourn with the assurance of better days ahead.  So, go ahead and grieve because of your losses. It's all right!    

2. The family worshiped in the midst of their loss. In the midst of grieving and mourning, I saw this family respond to this unexpected and tragic loss with a profound expression of worship. They recognized that God was and is the source of all life and is in control over all. They responded to him with praise, worship, and faith. They expressed this praise through some very powerful hymns and scripture . . . Amazing Grace, Ti's So Sweet, and It is Well with My Soul and Psalm 139, James 2, and John 11. As difficult as it might be to worship, praise and trust during our losses the Holy Spirit can empower us to do so. I saw it today and was inspired to cultivate a deeper trust to let Him energize me in that way. 

3. The family guarded their hearts after the loss. The Brainards, especially George, could have given into the temptation to blame God and become angry and bitter, but I saw him, the children and other relatives guard their relationship with God. I sense that the family will remain righteous and use this very painful time to draw close to God. When we lose people, things, dreams, and opportunities, let us use these very difficult times to draw close to our God and let him show us Himself. 

One more  . . . The family drew on the strength of community during their loss.

These are just a few of my observations. If you have experienced deep loss in your life, let me know how you have handled those losses. It just may encourage someone else.

    

 

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Exposed at the Golden Arches

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

Last week I went to the “golden arches” for lunch. I know, I know it’s not the healthiest food, but I had a “pregnant woman’s craving” for a hamburger and some of those golden, greasy fries. I placed my order, gave the cashier a twenty and he gave me all my food and my change (You know some are notorious for shorting you on everything, and then you have to go back in the cold, dark night and snow and sleet and demand justice! All they can offer you for your trek in the elements is a freakin’ medium drink. I digress).

Later that evening, when I was getting ready for our leaders’ retreat, I noticed that I had twenty-three dollars in my pocket, three dollars more than when I paid for my lunch earlier in the afternoon. 

Wow! I knew God could multiply loaves and fish, but to multiply my dollars while I napped, was beyond miraculous. It could be a ministry: “Increase While you Sleep!” Can the church say Amen! 

Well, God did not miraculously multiply my loaves, the cashier was irresponsible (in my favor, I might add). Instead of giving me thirteen dollars back for my change, he gave me twenty-three dollars. When I recognized what happened, my first thoughts were Praisallujah!!!! (I know it’s not a word, but it should be) God is good all the time and all the time, God is good; I have ten extra dollars; and It’s not my fault that math wasn’t his strongest subject in school. My next thought was I need to return it because it didn’t belong to me. But between my first thought and second thought, I felt a jab, stick and twist. The Holy Spirit, in a matter of seconds, had checked me, busted me, exposed me, stripped me, and told me to return the money, immediately, right now, instantly, promptly, forthwith, right away, pronto! I finished dressing and took the money back to the store. The cashier’s drawer was, in fact, short exactly ten dollars, and the manager suspected him of stealing it and was going to fire him. The manager and workers were shocked that I brought the money back and they offered me, get this, two apple pies and a large drink. They’re getting better. 
 
When I thought about the incident later, I realized that it wasn’t about the money, although money was involved. It was about something more expensive than ten dollars. This incident was about the rare and priceless commodity of integrity, of wholeness of character, of Jesus being integrated in to all of my life, even when it involved someone else’s error in my favor. In the end, the Holy Spirit saved a man’s job and a pastor’s character. Here are some questions to test and preserve our integrity/character as Jesus followers and as leaders:   
 
1. How free is my life from ethical and moral spots, corruption and inconsistencies? 
2. Have I compartmentalized my life, letting God in some rooms, while keeping him at bay from other rooms of my life? 
3. Is there an important area of my life that I am leaving uncultivated?   
4. Is there a gap between what I want to be known for and who I really am? 
5. Are my words dependable and trustworhty?
6. How insistent am I on thinking and speaking what it true? 
7. Is my financial stewardship honorable? 
8. How do I make and use money? 
9. Have I put money before people? 
10. Have I fulfilled my commitments completely? 
11. Are my allegiances clear or confused? 
12. By whom is my life being defined and shaped? 
13. On whose back have I thrown dirt? 
14. Have I initiated information that would discredit others? 
15. Have I slandered other people/leaders by saying things that are untrue and destructive?
16. Is there anyone in my life who can edit my life with tough questions?
 
Lord, may you join together, in holy matrimony, our private and public lives, and what you have joined together, let not inconsistencies, moral corruption, poor stewardship, gossip, popularity without power, clandestine relationships and ungodly business deals put it asunder. Amen!   

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Set a Deadline

Thursday, January 22nd, 2009

Deadlines

I have the great privilege of writing for two well-known Christian publications. I should be motivated to sit down in front of my computer and push out great articles each month, right? Wrong! There are some days when I am not motivated at all to do anything, more or less write. Thus, the ultimate inspiration for me is the deadline I have been given. I am like Duke Ellington, who said, "Without a deadline, baby, I wouldn't do nothing."  Deadlines help me put away excuses and create an urgency of getting down to the business of putting my thoughts down, one sentence and one paragraph at a time. When I fail to meet my deadline, I thank God for the grace of the editors.  

Deadlines are not only helpful for writing and work projects, they are also helpful for our personal lives as well. If you have set goals to pay off a bill, lose weight, buy a new house, finish reading a book, read through the Bible, going back to school, or to take a dream vacation, and have found yourself procrastinating and being less and less inspired, you may be able to create momentum by setting a deadline. Here are some helpful tips to setting and meeting deadlines:

1. Care about deadlines 
2. Don't be intimidated by deadlines 
3. Set a fake deadline
4. Have a clear outcome (What are you trying to accomplish?)
5. Keep a list of your goals and objectives handy
6. Break down your goals/objectives into steps 
7. Have a "start and complete" date for each step 
8. Block off adequate time to accomplish each step
9. Don't over commit 
10. Do what you need to do to meet your deadline 
11. If you fail to meet the deadline, set a second one.
12. Learn from mistakes    
13. Give yourself grace (not too much, though. You might sabotage your success and productivity)
14. Have someone hold you accountable to meet your deadline

Do you have a sense of urgency about your goals, success, and growth? What tight deadlines can you give yourself to inspire you to produce your best work?  Tell me how deadlines have helped to inspire you. 

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The Harvest

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

Barack Obama

About an hour ago, my beautiful, honey brown, wife and I stood in our kitchen and prayed, asking God's blessings on our day and thanking Him for this historic day in our country – the first black man will be sworn in and become the 44th president of the United States of America.

Minutes ago, before I dropped my three beautiful black children off at school, we had a lengthy discussion about the historic significance of this day – the first black man will be sworn in and become the 44th president of the United States of America. 

This is only possible because many years ago black people (there were whites who too fought for justice), who were disenfranchised through slavery, Jim Crow laws, and segregation, dug deep and planted seeds of racial equality, freedom, and justice in the good soil God's ideal, as it was penned in Holy Scripture, and in the good soil of the American dream as it was written in the Declaration of Independence:  All men are created equal and have inalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. 

These seeds were watered with marches, sit-ins, beatings, narrow jails, lynching, burning crosses, nonviolent demonstrations and violent and senseless deaths. Ah, but the rich blood and briny tears of our foreparents nourished and continue to nourish those seeds year after year, decade after decade and millennium after millennium. They planted and watered, knowing some very important laws of agriculture – you always get what you plant, the harvest takes God's blessing, exposure, and time and patience.    

Today, when Barack Obama is sworn in as the 44th President of the United States of America, we will be experiencing a significant, historic, and unprecedented harvest in this country, of many, many years of planting, watering, fertilizing and cultivating the dream of freedom, racial equality and justice. 

Tell me how you feel about this historic event.       

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Keep Beating the Cream

Monday, January 19th, 2009

Once two frogs fell into a pot of cream and they could not get out. So they swam around and around in the cream. "Oh, this is the end of my life," said one of the frogs. It gave up, stopped swimming, and drowned in the white liquid. The second frog, not liking the fate of the first frog, swam and swam, thrashed and thrashed, and beat the cream with its little feet. The cream became a ball of butter, and the frog jumped on the ball of butter and got out of the pot. What persistence! 

You started this year with high hopes to be persistent in reaching your goals. But, life happened, schedules have filled up and you have found yourself being inconsistent. If you are anything like me, you feel frustration over those days of inconsistency and failure. You probably feel like that first frog, ready to stop swimming and give up. I penned this post to encourage you and me to be like the second frog. Let's keep swimming, thrashing, and beating the cream with our little feet until our persistence makes butter, providing footing for our survival and success. Here are a few suggestions on how we can keep beating the cream and become more persistent this year:

Push through quitting points

Keep your goal(s) in sight

Be persistent even when doing small tasks

Learn your "quitting triggers"

Be flexible 

Give yourself grace 

How persistent are you in achieving your goals? What are some triggers that make you feel like giving up? What do you think you need to do to be more persistent? What are some other techniques that have helped you remain persistent in the past? Tell me what you think.

 

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MLK

Monday, January 19th, 2009

I have listened to this speech hundreds of times, and never tire of listening to it. As you reflect on and celebrate on this day, I pray you will take time to be captured all over again by the truth of this prophetic voice. I thank God for this man and how God used him in this nation. Have a great MLK day!

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Are You Painting the Piano?

Friday, January 16th, 2009

Bandleader Count Basie told a club owner, whose piano was out of tune, “I am not returning until you fix it.” A month later, Basie received a call from the club owner and he told him everything was fine. When Basie returned to the club and tried to play, the piano was still out of tune. “You said you fixed the piano!” an angry Basie exclaimed. “I did,” the owner replied. “I had it painted.” The owner solved the wrong problem!

Is your life, ministry, finances, marriage, family and spiritual life out of tune? Maybe you are “painting the piano” when you should be tuning it. Could it be you are not seeing the kind of success you desire in your life because you are not solving the right problems? For example, the answer to getting out of debt is not necessarily making more money. If you make more money, more than likely, you will spend more money, unless you solve the right problem. The issue that needs to be addressed is mismanagement of the money you already make. You need to become a faithful manager of the financial resources that God has entrusted to you.

Are you solving the right problems? Is there a more significant problem that you are overlooking?  Tell me what you think.

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